The Light That Shines When Life Is Hard

Becky Ziga, Chi Lambda (U of Evansville), Rituals, Traditions, and Jewelry Committee

When we speak about the founding of Alpha Omicron Pi, we share the values of love, character, dignity, scholarship, and loyalty. Our Founders emphasized that AOII membership is a lifelong journey, embracing both blessings and challenges. They believed that our sisterhood would serve as a shelter and light, supporting each other through the tough times. We “bear all things” together.

This foundation means that in moments of stress, grief, or uncertainty, AOII becomes more than just our beliefs—it becomes a lifeline. I personally know how much that lifeline means. My AOII journey began in 1978, and through every challenge—from graduate school to the loss of my third child and father, battling cancer, and caregiving for my mom and spouse—my sisters have been by my side. This article isn’t about my personal hardships, but to show how AOII sisters have consistently supported me through life’s hardest moments.

Though these times often felt overwhelming, I’ve never been alone. My AOII sisters are a constant support, checking in, offering help without asking, and reminding me that I am never without love or care.

Here’s how these sisters shine their light during my difficult times:

Emotional Support
A sister might send a message or call just to check in, while another will spend hours listening when I need to vent. No gesture is too small—each one reminds me I’m not alone.

Accountability and Encouragement
In stressful periods, my sisters help keep me grounded, offering motivation, helping me manage my time, and reminding me of my strengths.

Acts of Kindness
They show up with care packages, handwritten notes, meal drop-offs, or even a quick cup of tea to help me take a break. These gestures lighten the emotional weight I carry.

Mental Health Advocacy
My sisters prioritize my mental wellness, sharing resources, and offering ways to stay positive without judgment.

When life gets tough, our sisterhood shows up. Whether it’s through late-night conversations, silent moments when words fall short, or small acts of kindness, these sisters embody the commitment our founders made. AOII sisters offer quiet strength, an unshakable presence, and a bond that only grows stronger when tested.

AOII emphasizes deep, lifelong sisterhood, and one of its most meaningful aspects is the unwavering support sisters provide to each other, especially in tough times.

What sets AOII apart is a sisterhood not defined by perfection, but by compassion, presence, and love that shines brighter when shared.

You may contact the Rituals, Traditions, and Jewelry Committee (RT&J) about anything Ritual-related at RT&J@alphaomicronpi.org